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Jo-Ann Petrarca's avatar

Trudi, you sound sad. No worries sweetie, before you know it, winter than spring and summer again. I must be a weirdo because this weather invigorates me. Lovely poem as always hun. 🤗🙏

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Thank you, Jo-Ann. I was feeling sad as I wrote this - you always pick up on my mood!

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Megan Youngmee's avatar

i could feel this. Sending brightness and joy. Ease and light. Big hug and miss you

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Thank you, Megan. You know this friend of mine. I appreciate you.💞

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Jo-Ann Petrarca's avatar

🤗

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Tamsin 🍂 🐸 🪞's avatar

Lovely poem and raising interesting points. I’m not sure if I’m bothered about who remembers me when I’m gone, more that if they do it’s good. As I age more, and do my normal reminiscing about my life, and I remember both good and bad things about people I want my memory to not be bad in the main.

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Yes, I agree Tamsin. We want to be remembered with love.💞

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Rolando Andrade's avatar

Time is not an absence,

it is a presence,

an endless stream of memory,

and in the end,

we will be just a memory

in the memory of other memories.

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Rolando, I love your poetic responses. This is just beautiful.💞

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Kathleen Hobbs's avatar

Trudi, this is so moving. I can feel your sadness and love throughout this poem. And the question at the end feels like something we hold in our hearts.

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Thank you, Kathleen. That means a lot to me.🤗

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Lori Ann Bloomfield's avatar

It's beautiful that you can turn sorrow to art, Trudi. And also it is so healing for you. Though you have scared your audience and made them worry about you, I see. Aren't they lovely people that you gather around you? I think you have your answer to whether you will be remembered...But now to happier things. I'll go put a new song on so we can all dance! xo

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

I need to listen to more music, Lori. A dance would be fun! Thank you💕✨

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Julie Dee's avatar

I felt the sadness Jo-Ann picked up on too. It didn’t feel like you when I first read it.x

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

It was me, feeling that lament for my friend, and wondering how a life so vibrant and beautiful could be reduced to such suffering.

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Julie Dee's avatar

I knew it was you, I meant the spirit I’ve come to know as yours is sunnier. I guess we all have our moments. Sorry to hear about your friend.❤️xx

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Thanks, Julie. I appreciate that. xx

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Michael Newberry's avatar

Ha! I think one of us will be remembered by the other that is left!

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Deal!

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Dea Devidas's avatar

The Field always remembers. That’s the part the mind forgets when the nights grow long and the body curls in on its ache. But your line “Who will remember us when we’re gone?” lands like frost on ancestral soil. It touches the real edge. Memory isn’t behind us. It’s around us. Inside the marrow of now. You didn’t just write a lament. You cast a mirror in the dark and dared to ask it for warmth. 🌒 Let the silence be the answer that sings.

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Thank you, Dea. Yes. The Field always remembers.❤️

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Heidi Zawelevsky's avatar

Really moving, Trudi. The loss of light is its own kind of lament.

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Isn’t it? Thank you, Heidi.✨

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Old Codger Steve's avatar

You could have had no idea of how timely your poem is for me

Sorry but my partners sister has just died of a heart attack, last Tuesday

We are remembering her

A Eulogy poem will be

Margaret Meads Remember Me poem

Thank you for your poem

Poetry, your poetry always resonates.

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Dear Steve, I am so sorry for your loss. Poetry often lands where it is needed. The friend I was thinking of as I wrote it doesn't have long left. I've written her a bespoke poem for her funeral, at her request. It was an honour to be asked. Look after yourself.✨

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Old Codger Steve's avatar

Thank you for your kind words

Hopefully not too intrusive but would love to read your bespoke poem, but would understand if kept for yourself personally.

Unless of course you will be sharing at the appropriate time in one of your posts.

Thank-you again

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

I can ask my friend if she would like me to share it, as I see it as her poem. It is about her life, after all.💞

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Old Codger Steve's avatar

Totally understand that

Please pass on my heartfelt wishes to her

As you might imagine I know what it is to be knockin’ on heavens door

Wish you well as well

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

I know 🤗 thank you, Steve

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